Comments on: Guilt Meme http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/2008/05/10/guilt-meme/ along the continuum Fri, 13 Nov 2009 04:33:16 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Gene http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/2008/05/10/guilt-meme/#comment-109 Gene Mon, 19 May 2008 05:29:12 +0000 http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-109 Nice! Well I say that cuz I agree with you. :) I feel SO guilty! LMAO! Good writing Rosa. <strong>Thought you might like that, Gene. Aloha my friend! </strong> Nice! Well I say that cuz I agree with you. :) I feel SO guilty! LMAO!

Good writing Rosa.

Thought you might like that, Gene. Aloha my friend!

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]]> By: Grace http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/2008/05/10/guilt-meme/#comment-101 Grace Fri, 16 May 2008 20:53:13 +0000 http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-101 ((( Rosa ))) This was so well thought out and so well written. I'm sure that when I've completely grown up, I'll be able to live a totally guilt free life myself :) LOLOL As it is, I 'still' occasionally struggle with it...not putting it on others, but putting it on myself. For example...I blog at work. I know that I am not being paid to blog...and as a salaried person, my time is my own to a certain point. I've never missed a deadline, either. Yet sometimes I feel 'guilty' about that. When I get these little pricks from my conscious, I generally take them as minor "course corrections" and signs that I might tighten up my integrity somehow. But I'm not nearly as anal about it as I used to be. Perfectionism is SO 15 minutes ago! LOLOL xoxox I try to use any 'guilt' <strong> Oh goodness, Grace, you have me laughing my ass off. We have to completely grow up? I'm glad I can't blog at work. Yes little pricks for course corrections - I like that - just not as a life consuming activity, lol. Thanks for the compliments on the post. ((hugs))</strong> ((( Rosa )))

This was so well thought out and so well written. I’m sure that when I’ve completely grown up, I’ll be able to live a totally guilt free life myself :) LOLOL As it is, I ’still’ occasionally struggle with it…not putting it on others, but putting it on myself.

For example…I blog at work. I know that I am not being paid to blog…and as a salaried person, my time is my own to a certain point. I’ve never missed a deadline, either. Yet sometimes I feel ‘guilty’ about that.

When I get these little pricks from my conscious, I generally take them as minor “course corrections” and signs that I might tighten up my integrity somehow. But I’m not nearly as anal about it as I used to be. Perfectionism is SO 15 minutes ago! LOLOL

xoxox

I try to use any ‘guilt’


Oh goodness, Grace, you have me laughing my ass off. We have to completely grow up? I’m glad I can’t blog at work. Yes little pricks for course corrections – I like that – just not as a life consuming activity, lol.
Thanks for the compliments on the post. ((hugs))

]]> By: tobeme http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/2008/05/10/guilt-meme/#comment-100 tobeme Fri, 16 May 2008 18:55:39 +0000 http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-100 Very good thoughts on guilt. Guilt to me is an emotion that we should never attem to invoke in others and it is an emotion that can swallow us whole if we allow it. To live in the moment is to release feelings of guilt. <strong> *smile* Mark, good to see you! Yes it will indeed swallow us whole and eat us alive leaving no room for the living.</strong> Very good thoughts on guilt. Guilt to me is an emotion that we should never attem to invoke in others and it is an emotion that can swallow us whole if we allow it. To live in the moment is to release feelings of guilt.

*smile* Mark, good to see you!
Yes it will indeed swallow us whole and eat us alive leaving no room for the living.

]]> By: Sorrow http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/2008/05/10/guilt-meme/#comment-99 Sorrow Fri, 16 May 2008 17:51:50 +0000 http://runzwithknives.wordpress.com/?p=227#comment-99 Wow, a guilt meme.. thats a new different one... Gonna have to say guilt and regret are two tools of manipulation I don't buy into much. ( note i say MUCH, because as a parent there are days when I feel 'remorse' over a choice of words or punishments that needed addressing before I had time to think things thru.) So , I liked the "victim mentality" reference, and I don't think you were to wordy. You were articulate and consistent, something I wish more folks were! <strong>Aloha Sorrow, Thanks for stopping by to visit. *smile* Sometimes a meme format like this helps clear the clutter in my brain. I too have felt the <em>occasional</em> sadness of remorse centered around realizing an unfairness by my actions towards disciplining the children. I remember watching my ex and his mother. Their interaction was one of guilt thrown his way for something she wanted and then playing the victim game when she didn't get it. He would also take the victim role in response. Which turned into horrific resentment. ICK. I don't buy regretful living either. And only have a few when I really look at it all. Thanks for the compliment on my process. It's rarely this clear. *laughs* Stop by for another cuppa java anytime!! </strong> Wow, a guilt meme..
thats a new different one…
Gonna have to say guilt and regret are two tools of manipulation I don’t buy into much. ( note i say MUCH, because as a parent there are days when I feel ‘remorse’ over a choice of words or punishments that needed addressing before I had time to think things thru.)
So , I liked the “victim mentality” reference, and I don’t think you were to wordy. You were articulate and consistent, something I wish more folks were!

Aloha Sorrow,
Thanks for stopping by to visit. *smile*
Sometimes a meme format like this helps clear the clutter in my brain. I too have felt the occasional sadness of remorse centered around realizing an unfairness by my actions towards disciplining the children.
I remember watching my ex and his mother. Their interaction was one of guilt thrown his way for something she wanted and then playing the victim game when she didn’t get it. He would also take the victim role in response. Which turned into horrific resentment. ICK.
I don’t buy regretful living either. And only have a few when I really look at it all.
Thanks for the compliment on my process. It’s rarely this clear. *laughs*
Stop by for another cuppa java anytime!!

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