Are you comfortable here?
No not really. I’m trying to not overstep boundaries.
What kind of boundaries? In the house or personal?
Both. The personal boundaries are secondary right now. I just don’t know what they are. But, I don’t want to overstep by rearranging your house and your stuff.
Do what you need to do. I put stuff where it is convenient. Doesn’t really mean anything. I know stuff needs to be gone through and is a mess. Lots of stuff can be thrown out.
What about the personal boundaries?
You’re tired and I don’t like talking to the back of your head. Sleep well.
I’m not sure what will make me feel comfortable here. What makes us comfortable and safe in any one place with any one person?
Certainly I have free reign of the house. Really, I know that. I can do whatever I want here. And have with respect to stuffing his closet full of my clothes….stuffing the empty dresser drawers in his bedroom with more of my clothes. Finding niches for the rest of stuff I need….shoes…luggage…wicker baskets…sewing basket…lube and glass toys in the head board *laughing*.
He found me sunning outside in the backyard in my bra yesterday afternoon.He doesn’t really care as long as I don’t give the neighbors too much of a show. *giggles* I’m not comfortable walking around in a thong here…it’s my preferred attire. It smacks of being suggestive…it’s one of those boundaries I’m thinking about even tho he says he has no issues as he is unclothed too.
He wants me to feel “home” here. He’s gone to a lot of trouble to do that for me. It’s not his fault. There is not blame. I don’t want him to ever feel like he hasn’t done enough for me. It isn’t him. I feel like I can never repay what he is doing for me.
It’s my fear of becoming too comfortable here. Liking that too much because I know I will.
How can I make myself comfortable without the fear?