the not as I thought, thought for the morning….

It is not at all related to gender. It is related to the demeanor. I had an interesting experience last week with suspension and a really nice mind-fuck from a woman I never expected to be able to drop me to my knees that quickly. She took full advantage of what I did not see but didn’t overstep either. I LOVED it.

Interesting…..

I am not interested in topping or dominating men because it’s a turnoff for me. I am sure I could. *shrugs*
I am not particularly interested in topping or dominating women although there are a few I can and have.
Suddenly, I am meeting more instead of fewer who seem to more easily inspire my submissiveness. Those who get it and me almost instinctively(?).

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2 Responses to the not as I thought, thought for the morning….

  1. Rosa says:

    Hello Sweet One!
    What you say it true. And it needs to become more of a habit with me. What I have also noticed is I am becoming really, really clear about my own boundaries. And being able (or perhaps more willing) to voice them in a constructive way without blame OR shame.. That inner listening and clarity has helped tremendously the past 4 months.

    XOXOXO

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  2. Sweetness says:

    I have learned in the past couple years that I am more open hearted, and more able to trust…and that puts more really skillful, wonderful people in my purview who can effect me like this…

    I am glad you are getting such lovely experiences!!!

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